She said she wished he would give her closure... We've all been there. Sometimes, we think that the only way to heal is to have a conversation with the one who hurt us. And here is where I call out a big, giant, neon-lettered - BULLSHIT. There was a time when I too, wished for … Continue reading on closure
The story is big enough to travel on its own circuit. I imagine it with its own lunch plans and speaking engagements. It's flexible too - no doubt twisting itself to meet each narrator's purposes. A perfect lunch date - inviting its companions to dine on sumptuous and salacious bones of someone else's misfortune. But … Continue reading defined
She told me to try to frame it in terms of gratitude. What was I thankful for as a result? What wouldn't I have if not for it happening?
It's been a little while since my last blog post - that's partly because of the whirlwind of crazy that is currently my life (between work, grad school, politics, and attempting a social life). But if I'm being honest, there has not been a shortage of things to write about (obviously) and I did have … Continue reading On trolls
A pick me up, if you need it - Sometimes after people take advantage of you, it changes you. You worry that no one else will value you, instead of the things you can buy them or the added self-esteem boost of having someone care for them. Sometimes you screw up and kick yourself later … Continue reading You are worthy
If I had a nickel for every time someone underestimated me, thought I was foolish, too nice, or stupid - I'd be a rich woman. But if I had a nickel for each time I thought that of myself, I'd be at least three times as rich... But why do I doubt? Many years ago, I … Continue reading I just can’t…